The trick is to see with an open eye the space you create 

 In life there are times when we find ourselves struggling with relationships that have left us demolished emotionally mentally physically spiritually depleted from just being apart of them..whether from our own cause and hand or that of another human experience..Sometimes we stay much longer than ever intended because possibly it is all that we know, as horrible as that may sound, and maybe we stay because we are to weak to get the fuck out brainwashed from all the disillusion and dysfunction..Sometimes we choose to stay for all the monitory "good" reason selling our soul to the lowest part of our being, becoming trapped and caged by permission suffering within the glorious chapel of your divine temple drinking the dirty water, but at least your housed lavishly and are looking good, right!The 3 of swords as you can see represents the mess of a meantime that is a struggle for you..it's a cut throat situation that has taken a toll in your mental emotional physical state along with making you heart sick..a devastating romance, an emotional turmoil that is mentally draining leaving you to feel isolated lost deserted utterly just hurt to the core..The 3 of cups as you can see is the opposing complete opposite..it sings breaths dances goodness, happiness, celebration, joy, love, unity, a oneness with yourself and those who surround you..I drew this card as a clarifying card which is truly unique and absolutely most perfect for the 3 of swords.It is within the conscious of our mind as how we choose to go forward with anything in life harmoniously or not.. We can be the victim, the one who can never see the flicker of light in anything dark complaining how horrible life has been to you constructing a structure that supports nourishes and houses all the toxic negitive behavior..Or you can pull the swords out of your system and Grab the 3 cup mentality and soak in the sunshine of your emotional success even when it feels heavy and unbearable..find ways that elevate your spirit bringing you back to a grounding center that stabilized with a healthy balance allowing you to feel what you feel and recover with your feet planted surrounded by love and light and some good friends..there is always an opposite effect if you can get past your own limited ideas agenda and manifestations because when there is a negitive there will always be a positive.The trick is to see with an open eye the space that you create and share with people and more importantly with yourself if it is a stable loving  environment or one that is slowly stabbing at your heart and spirit one sword at a time..peace love faith hope