your secret society from the rest of the world

there is something special about the relationship you are able to create with your partner that is beyond any connection you have with the others that are in your life..it is a sacred experience that unifies the two of you together creating a blissful place you both share on profound levels that others are not privilege to be a part of..it is your secret society from the rest of the world that bonds the unification of your heart mind body spirit soul together creating an oasis of love that is unexplainable and divine on many different levels that is the gift when you become a true couple..it is the ultimate intimacy you achieve with your other when you both are in sync and authentically unconditional to each other in a magical way..i genuinely love being with, spending time with and playing with my husband..he is my best fiend and the one i can be completely let myself unravel with, even when we are out in public..there is the old saying that those who play together will end up staying together, which is the magical ingredient in your relationship..i absolutely love spending quality time together even when spending time consists of sitting on the couch in our sweats laughing and watching t.v, cuddled together..we make a choice daily to nourish this union we chose to commit too, to its fullest since we both come from failed marriages and know the needed ingredients to make it thrive and grow beyond the mundane flow of our every day life..

sometimes it can be a struggle to stay connected to each other when life gets in the way..life comes with unexpected struggles and stupid shit that infects us and interrupts the closeness to one another allowing it to temporarily forget why you are here from the first place..sometimes we bring our outside shit home with us, into the sanctuary of the intimate space contaminating it with influential bullshit that doesn't belong there and some how ends up causing more damage disruption then ever intended on..sometimes you just have to find the outlet of the connection between you and your other and just plug into it rebooting and restoring the flow of energy that has been zapped away some how some way..you have to be willing to commit to the process, even during the shitty times when the process feels like a ton of  boring stupid work and not worth your egos times but essentially needed for your unified heart soul and spirit..find the pureness within the relationship that you are connected too, and inhale all its magnificent beauty one deep breath at a time, filling your space with its exuberant love..be inclusive within the power of what you share, not allowing the outside world the ability to chip away and feed off this specific connection to one another, leaving it to be only sacred to the both of you..take pride in your union honoring it every single solitary day, even when times are difficult, your unspoken loyalty is being watched and monitored by the universe creating outcomes and shifts according to your beliefs and behavior on a scale grander than your oblivious imagination..strip away all the outside influences while getting down to the nakedness of your authenticity embracing the synchronicity shared together in your spoken honor to one another pealing away the layers that can get in the way..remember to have fun with each other, using laughter as the tool to connect healing the daily hurdles that influence the distance between..find the passion within your own heart that stimulates the passion you feel for your other, and slowly infect that sacred space one intimate moment at a time..peace love faith hope