I'm a damn good fucking mother

 im a mother, mommie, mom, momma.. Id like to believe and say that I'm a damn good fucking mother, probably the best role I have filled thus far in my life, although being a wife for the 3rd time, I have successfully managed to go from rotten to superb by choosing more wisely this time around..so im pretty much neck and neck with both roles kicking ass and being my best self possible which has made me a rock star of a mother and wife..by being a mother to two beautiful souls, I have learned the value of self through my own experience in raising these specific girls, and the examples I wished to create and nurture in them as growing people that I myself find to be imperative and successful as we evolve..i have paved the way in showing them the hands of strength from a female emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally and soulfully while creating the courage to be and stand in  your truth as you are, each step of the way..the role of a mother is one I have taken most seriously, and one I have never felt the need to divorce or abandon when the chips of life had become stacked against me, although im pretty sure I flipped them off periodically..i discovered the ability of what loving unconditionally means and the spiritual threads that line the webbing of this most sacred contract you sign up for, even when your children hate you for being the parent they most adamantly need..i learned from my husband during some of the most hardest times in my parenting experience the importance of boundaries and structure, especially when you are a truly blended family all trying to finding your seat at the round table..we are never to young to still be at times, when needed, parented, mothered, fathered by our spouses, roles that are always swapping around in the family of your kingdom while raising children that at different times you need to step up and into..for him and this partnership I feel truly blessed and hope one day my girls authentically see the purity of his unconditional love that he has for them individually and as his chosen children..so today I raise my beloved grail of black liquid gold, my cherished beverage, to my beautiful children who call me mother, and to my husband who has nourished me beyond belief and supported and respected this role I take most seriously..wishing every one a blessed beautiful day celebrating the radiant energy of mothering and the sweetness of its maternal way..peace love faith hope