Posts tagged children
The Gift In Self(ish)Care
The NON Father's Day
The Birth Of The Legendary Phoenix
The (UN)Mothers Of This Day
The Emotional Truth About Adoptees Grief & Invisible Loss
How I Cut Half My Finger Off
The Power Of Forgiveness & Its Act Of Mercy
November Is Adoption Awareness Month ~ My Biological Father Jack & The Gift In The Wake Of His Death
November Is Adoption Month ~ The Problem With The Adoption Label
Healing the Family Tree
The Virus Of Hate

It saddens me deeply that this human infectious disease & infestation of HATRED is overpopulating this world more than any other virus on this planet.  The numbers of this man made pathogen are frightening me more than any of the numbers associated with Mother Natures illnesses.  If nature can have a cure for everything it produces, why  aren't we as humans desperately trying to find the cure or remedy within our own twisted fucked up ways & eradicate what is ultimately killing all of us again & again over time.

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My Real Father’s Day.

It was in that dreadful moment that I wasn't chosen & disregarded that I realized I had to literally begin to mourn the loss of my living father who metaphorically died that day as my dad.  I was horribly criticized by the flying monkeys of my narcissistic mother & ostracized from this family for apparently abandoning my "parents", even though it was them who let me go that day.  They remain toxically comfortable in their victim mentality, using the story of their own distorted truth to narrate the fucked up dynamics of their broken family.

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I pronounce today, step dad day!

I don't think you ever really realize what you signed up for up for, until you are knee deep in enemy territory with an entire former family (I had to eventually cut family ties) rooting for your failure..still to this day mind you..

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#ifmywoundswerevisible
The art in healing..
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