Posts in narcissistic mother
Who Are You After Your Children Grow Up?

What becomes of this woman or person who built their kingdom around the role they naturally embodied with their children? Who are they in the absence of their offspring that are now off to become independent sovereignties all of their own. What will happen to the person who is no longer needed for every day things that once gave them meaning and value? Where is that person now who once had the natural skill set to pull off fundraising and social activities that they volunteered for, having natural business minded abilities driven and focused within the home and school? Are you ready to TRANSFORM yourself for the next phase of your life?

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The Universe Has Its Own Software Updates
To Question, Thats The Answer
Self Empowerment

What I realized during some of these long over due evaluations of connections was that I was my own form of toxic poisoning to my well being, thoughts & beliefs.  I had for years consumed the tainted koolaid that was served from a narcissistic parent that I thought was a refreshment, distorting my entire truth of self beliefs.  I found a way during my later years in healing to forgive myself & that abused little girl inside that simply didn't know any better or differently.

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Building Blocks Of Self

Unsolicited outside opinions at times are just a way for other people to share & spread their own fear based biases. Opinion are not facts or truths, just a collection of words that belong to another persons vocabulary of assumptions & ideas, viewpoint & speculations that might have nothing to do with you. Points of views say more about the person who speaks of them so take them with a grain of salt & use what seems to resonates with you while learning to pass over what doesn't. Listening to someone speak & share their feelings doesn't have to mean you agree.

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The Gift In Self(ish)Care
The NON Father's Day
The Shame Of Weight
The Birth Of The Legendary Phoenix
I Am The Light
The (UN)Mothers Of This Day
The Emotional Truth About Adoptees Grief & Invisible Loss
The Unhealthy Patterns Of Behavior
The Power Of Forgiveness & Its Act Of Mercy
How Misfortune Saved My Life
National Adoption Awareness Month ~ Behind Closed Doors
November Is Adoption Awareness Month ~ My Biological Father Jack & The Gift In The Wake Of His Death
November Is National Adoption Month ~ The Secret Gift From My Biological Mother
November Is Adoption Month ~ The Problem With The Adoption Label
I Cant Make This Stuff Up